And this goes for men, as well as women.
Also, with carful placement, you can get the vibrating end to simultaneously vibrate your hand fingers and have it placed directly on the clitoris.
Cup the vibrating end in the palm of your hand … Not to tightly, but with just the right amount of pressure, and you fingers become vibrators.
I even wrote a book, designed to help everyone who comes here get past all the problems and difficult bits quickly, easily, and a lot more smoothly than I did.
Remember all that tension that happens with orgasms?
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It tends to be featured in a lot of kinky sexy role plays. I find it to be a VERY handy device to have. I advocate using your basic single column tie on each ankle at first, so you can experiment and adjust easily as you go, in case legs wide apart or closer together are a major factor for your person. Having that control, and making fun things happen with it. Then gradually working them up again, and then backing off again, maybe times.